Heartbreak is such a familiar thing. Some of us might have broken their hearts earlier than the usual-- defined as well, during the junior high to the senior high years.
It's something inevitable though. Whether we like it or not, we'll break our hearts sooner or later. But along that painful event, we learn lessons that would make us better persons to love and be loved in return.
I broke my heart during highschool. The guy and me were friends. But eventually it turned into something more. It's not really an official thing but sort of a mutual understanding between the two of us.
But now that I think of it... The whole thing is just too confusing. :))
But skip the happy lalala land part.
We separated sections after the first year of highschool and moved on with our lives. Well... at least HE did.
Poor me. Thought all along that it was that forever thing. It's really a fluke that infects you during your first puppy love.
But anyway. Took me really really long to forget. But I did. Eventually. This post is just a proof that I'm over that event and I'm just laughing it off as I type this.
So how did I?
a.) I thrashed the whole place - LOL. It's needed. Too many memories need to be destroyed. *evil laugh*
b.) Sort of regrets the present giving during occasions to him - WTF. I could have bought a lot of stuff for myself.
But seriously cry your eyes out first. It's the best and effective way for me. In the end you'd be tired of crying and you'll be angry that he/she made your eyes puffy. And then... when you're past that days and nights of nonstop crying...
a.) Read 'n Delete messages - Read and read and read those messages until you get sick of reading the same thing all over again. Immune thyself. Remember once that they made you swoon but that's it. End of story.
b.) Burn stuff and pictures - As painful as doing so you need to do it. Things that make you remember good memories and miss them should go.
c.) Hang out with your friends - This is really a good thing. Not only do they bring more bonding time but somehow these kinds of moments will make you remember that once upon a time he wasn't part of your world and yet you're happy as hell.
d.) Indulge in other activities such as playing sports - Hahaha. Go indulge. Hitting something would release tensions that stayed in the body. If you're totally bitter then that'd be good-- Tape his/her picture on whatever you're hitting. Totally feels awesome!
e.) Eat sweets - Yes I know they tend to make you gain weight but if you're following my advice on doing the sporty thing... then you'd be fine. Sweets like chocolates have dopamine and serotonin that alleviates pain and promote feelings of happiness. If you so not convinced... GOOGLE IT.
f.) Set up a "BASH" party - :) If anyone is not familiar with it... Then I'll explain. It's not possible that you've always liked the guy/girl. There would be his/her moments wherein he/she just sucks so bad. There'd be his/her weird quirks that is somewhat annoying. If you remember good side then it's time to remember the bad side.
g.) Talk with someone like ME!- Self-explanatory. :p Hahaha.
They're what I did during my heartbreak moments okay? Not guaranteed to be thoroughly effective 100% for all people but 98% effective. LOLOLOLOL.
You have a problem and should see your psychiatrist if the aforementioned methods failed. :p Why? Because you're probably obsessed with the person and I wouldn't be surprised to find a shrine of him/her at your home.
If you've succeeded in your rehabilitation from your obsession then repeat aforementioned steps all over again. :)
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