Penny For Your Thoughts.

In the context of LOVE, "Bahala ka (It's your choice)." does not mean "do as you please." It means, "You know what I want. You can either do things that make me happy or choose to disappoint me."

This is actually the most absurd thing I've ever read.


You cannot EVER impose on someone you love what they should choose.


Because if you love them? Whatever they choose, you should accept. Simply because it happened to be their choice. Whether or not you're happy about it, it's out of your reach.


No guilt tripping and shit like It means, "You know what I want. You can either do things that make me happy or choose to disappoint me."


because that is hella evil.


I'm going rant about this because that statement above is so fucking selfish itself.


And whoever thought of this statement even had the nerve to insert "In the context of love".


If that is the kind of love you'll be receiving, then tell the other person on the other end of this 'love' to go eat that 'love' they're giving out.


Bullshit. Loads of bullshit.


This is like waging a subconscious warfare on the decisions/choices of the person you love. Indirectly imposing what they should choose. Indirectly pushing them to incline to the choice that makes you happy.


And they will choose what makes you happy because in their mind it's like, 'if you love someone, you will do what makes them happy.'


And that is just plain stupid.


If you really love somebody, you will never ever try to influence their decision to lean on what is comfortable or favorable on your part.


Their decision might hurt you, but WHOEVER SAID LOVE IS EASY?


If you love them, YOU WILL ACCEPT THEIR CHOICE EVEN IF IT FUCKING DISAPPOINTS YOU.


So to whoever invented the statement I'm ranting about...


FUCK YOUR SELFISH STATEMENT.


CLEVERLY HIDDEN EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL.


I'm sorry to say they've failed their covert operations.